I’m in a very contemplative mood today,

 

Last night on the way to my graduation I found out that a lady I know had died the day before. There I was in pretty clothes with nicely done hair and a made up face while friends of mine cried over the loss of their mother.

 

It’s really actually not very fair. I do understand that death is apart of life but why does it have to be so painful? I remember when we were younger and one of my teachers died, we weren’t allowed to cry. How do you do that? How do you not mourn for losing someone? More often than not the crying is more for yourself than anything.

 

I believe that you should cry for as long as you like in one sitting. Then move on. Grief is a part of death and life.